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Sam Tobin-Hochstadt's avatar

This is really good, but there's another bigger tension you don't mention. The most fundamental imperative at any selective college is that the students (all the students) succeed. This leads to more of the surveillance and beauracracy than any other factor.

Elyse Eidman-Aadahl's avatar

Excellent piece about something few people are writing about. Thank you.

I was one of the students you referred to as a resistance-to-administrative authority in the 1970s, a professor who began teaching prior to helicopter parenting, and a faculty member at the moment when all of these expectations about the relationship between the institution and the students and their families began to shift. As a very tiny example of the larger trends you wrote about, I remember the first meetings when a faculty member would relate, with shock, that a student's parents had come into office hours to argue for a higher grade on a particular paper or activity. Outside of pressure from, shall we say, a VIP family to make sure the child was "well taken care of" (which was a known experience), the notion that, in general, parents would come in, often with the student sitting silently in the office, to argue about an assignment was not something higher ed faculty had experienced, and it shifted attention away from working with students to working with students and their families in a profound way.

Again, this is a small example of the larger trend, but the recent events at Oklahoma University show it has only amplified.

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